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nextwife

Senior Member
Good luck. There are many more sign software sites, I just listed a few. Try a metasearch on www.ixquick.com

My daughter (now just 6) really did not start to talk until age 3 - and that was mostly unintelligable . She has had transitory hearing impairments since then. Have you utilized the mandated birth to three Early Intervention programs? These are wonderful catch up resources.

My friend's son just had a successful cochlier implant. The other ear will also be done. These, of course, are not of value to all kids with hearing problems.

Titanium tubes? WOW. Have you read up on the value of doing tubes PLUS adenoidectomy for reduced incidence of otitis media? WE had both done on the recommendation of the speech center at Children's Hospital and have only had one ear infection since. And she was ALWAYs getting ear infections.
 
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monnickasmommy

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Early Intervention programs
Yes He just completed it befor he started preschool with a IEP through the program.
Excellant program

adenoidectomy There gone too along with his toncills -- all done at once !!!
Has not been sick once or had a infection

Thanks again .
 
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coosi

Guest
BB,
LOL. Good luck to you.

MM,

I think I mentioned I'm in Arizona also.
Here's a link to Arizona Schools for the Deaf and Blind. Less than a mile from my house in Tucson. They are an excellent resource.

http://www.asdb.state.az.us/about.html

Now, I have to share my saga with otis media. I was fortunate ehough to give birth to three amazing children. My first two (daughters) never had an ear infection in their lives. So I was unpleasantly surprised when my son (breast fed), at his four-week check-up, already had one. He was on a prophylactic antibiotic (he would get an ear infection within 24 hours of discontinuing the Rx) until ten months, when the first set of tubes were put in. Another set at 22 months (they had worked out).

Then, when he was three, we discovered he was speech and language delayed (and I was a stay at home mom at that point and the environment was enriched, to say the least). When he was four, I (by then a single mother) enrolled him in Head Start (free and fabulous) where I participated. Also in special language classes through (what was then) Crippled Children's Clinic. When he started school he had behavior problems (due to other kids not being able to understand him) and was in Special Ed with Speech and Language classes until fourth grade.

Fast forward...
He's eighteen. Graduated HS in May. Was in Gifted and Talented Education beginning in fifth grade. Took Calculus (!) in High School, and is in Community College now. Things have worked out very well.

That's my little success story. I love to brag about my "baby"!

Best of luck to you and your family...
 
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monnickasmommy

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Thank you -at least I am not the only one with a "gifted" hearing child. My son started his also at a vey young age too- breast fed until I was pg with my last one !!!lol :eek:

What kind of behavior problems did you son have -?


Mine has ADHD/Impulsive behavior - Just started Strattera 25mh it does work during the day-however by 5:00 he is so hyper again !!!!:D


I live in the desert where there is weed, dry weather. No good doctors (My daughter was air vac to Scottsdale HeathCare Shea)
 
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coosi

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Thank you -at least I am not the only one with a "gifted" hearing child. My son started his also at a vey young age too- breast fed until I was pg with my last one !!!lol

**I had three babies in 46 months, the first two breast-fed until I realized I was pregnant AGAIN! I finally figured out what was causing that and quit LOL!

What kind of behavior problems did you son have -?
**Well, since he couldn't communicate verbally, he was very PHYSICAL, if you follow my drift. Example: he was big for his age (10lbs 6oz at birth!) so he would pick up the other kids and carry them around! Also jumped off the counter a couple of times to get their attention. The teacher and I communicated almost daily, and I volunteered in his classroom in every spare minute.

Mine has ADHD/Impulsive behavior - Just started Strattera 25mh it does work during the day-however by 5:00 he is so hyper again !!!!
**Sometimes I think all healthy kids are ADHD. When you consider the alternative (like a wheelchair, etc.) you feel lucky...

I live in the desert where there is weed,
**I assume that doesn't mean what it sounds like LOL!

dry weather. No good doctors (My daughter was air vac to Scottsdale HeathCare Shea)
**I have friends who found it necessary to relocate to find appropriate resources for their children. Don't know what your situation is, but unless it's ideal, there's a lot that can be compromised for the health and well-being of our children...
 
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llxpreciousxll

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I Think ALL Of You Are Coming Down On Bama Wayyy TOO Hard She Seems Like A Nice Girl. Let Her Be. If She Wants To Raise Her Own Child Let Her!! I Agree With You Bama, I Also Am 16 And Expecting. And I And My Boyfriend Are Happily Engaged And Waiting For The Arrival.. We To Are In A Situation Somewhat Like Yours.. My Mom Won't Let Us Marry. And We're Desperately Looking For Somewhere To Do So Without Parental Consent.. He's 18 So He's Fine But I, Being 16 Am Not.

I Think All Of You Older People Are Much Too Wrong And Too Smart Ass To Us. We're Young People, We Deserve A Right To Raise Our Own Child At Our Own Risk. Don't Try And Change Us If Anything Try And HELP Us. Give Us Advice, Don't Push Us And Tell us What To Do With Our OWN Child.

If You Were Still Our Age And In Our Situation I Don't Doubt One Bit You'd Do The Same. We're Not Being Selfish, If We Feel We Can Give Our Child A Good Family And Home We Will Do So. Just Because We're Young Does NOT Mean We're Incapable Of Supporting Someone Other Than Ourselves.. Stop Being So Densly Arreogant, And Get A Clue!! We Have More Knowledge And More Power These Days Than You Elder People Did in YOUR Age. Don't Judge Us For Our Mistakes Let Us Handle Them.. Just Try And Help Us Along The Long Lingering Bumpy Road.

-Keep Your Head Up Bama, And I Wish The Best For You And Your Fianceè, And Have A Healthy Baby, I'm Glad You Choose To Keep It. I To Would Not Want My Child To Suffer In Ways And Hate Me For Doing So If I Were To Give It Up. -
~1love~
 
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coosi

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I Think ALL Of You Are Coming Down On Bama Wayyy TOO Hard "

I think YOU need to read the entire thread before you make your statements. Maybe you' ll learn something...

PS
And if you have your own legal issues, best to start a new thread...
 

TLWE

Member
llxpreciousxll

I see on your location that it says "soon to be Louisiana". You won't be getting married in LA without parental consent either.

http://www.ebrclerkofcourt.org/departments/public_service/marriage.htm

You must be 18 to obtain a marriage license without parental consent.

A minor must be accompanied by both parents, who must show proper identification or provide a signed notarized statement giving the parent's consent for the minor to marry. If one parent has been granted legal custody by the courts, that parent must present a certified copy of the judgement granting custody.

A marriage license cannot be issued to anyone under the age of 16 without an order from a Juvenile Court judge in addition to parental consent.
If both parents are deceased, a legal guardian may give consent with proof of guardianship.

Both parties need not be present (unless contracting a covenant marriage), but one of the parties must be present to apply for a marriage license. That party must present identification, for the absent party, in the form of a certified birth certificate.

Both Bride and Groom must have proof of age in the form of an original or certified birth certificate. Nothing else will be accepted. Birth Certificates can be obtained from The Vital Records Registry for the state in which you were born.

Each party will need to know their parent's full name, mother's maiden name, and the states in which they were born.

Social Security numbers for both parties must also be supplied.

Once the license has been issued there is a 72 hour waiting period before the marriage ceremony can be performed; also if the license is unused after 30 days, it expires.
 
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3kidsmom

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llx

I Think ALL Of You Are Coming Down On Bama Wayyy TOO Hard She Seems Like A Nice Girl. Let Her Be. If She Wants To Raise Her Own Child Let Her!! I Agree With You Bama, I Also Am 16 And Expecting. And I And My Boyfriend Are Happily Engaged And Waiting For The Arrival.. We To Are In A Situation Somewhat Like Yours.. My Mom Won't Let
For future reference, only the FIRST letter of a sentence, or proper nouns should be capitalized. NOT every word in a sentence.

That will be good for you to know before your child starts elementary school :rolleyes:
 
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tammy8

Senior Member
Re: llx

3kidsmom said:
For future reference, only the FIRST letter of a sentence, or proper nouns should be capitalized. NOT every word in a sentence.

That will be good for you to know before your child starts elementary school :rolleyes:
LOL I was thinking the same thing!!! Us old people will soon be saying to each other, what is this world coming too!!!!

God help us if this is the future of our nation!
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Oh, and precious? If your fiance takes you over state lines to get married w/o proper consent - he can be arrested. Just thought you might like to know.
 

dakoto70

Member
I don't know

I don't know which was harder to read her using capital letters for every new word or all the misspelled words? Either way if this is the way the kids are growing up and learning in school than I may just home school my children.

It is a really sad situation. Neither girl knows what they are getting into and they are bringing a helpless baby into it, as well.
 
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llxpreciousxll

Guest
Look, don't ridicule me because the way I type. It's what I've gotten use to. Doesn't mean I'm stupid, just that I press shift too much. What would you rather me talk like this "uhh like ya kno like im expecting a baby like right? and im soo totally not like giving it up for like whats the word? .. uhh uhh ADOPTION! like yea totally and uh.."?? I mean God, atleast I'm Not Dense. And thank you very much I DO know what I'm getting myself into. Thanks for worrying.. uhh NOT. I've raised myself and my younger brother since I was 9. I've also helped my friend who was 16 and had a baby raise her child. So yes I do know. And for your information, yes, I do know that I can't get married in Louisiana without parent consent. Exactly why we are looking into different states close-by with leaniant laws. And no I won't raise my child bad and illiterate, I went to school, hence WENT, I'm out now. Looking forward to Tech College. So don't tell me what to do with my life or say I'm going to raise my child bad. When your child comes up pregnant or going to be a dad what are you going to do? Degrade them, as if they have no relation? That will get you NOWHERE. Except childless. And I'm sorry but no he won't be getting arrested. I'll be leaving and staying with him then we'll soon get married afterwards. Besides what mother would actually arrest their childs spose? and grandchild's father? An arreogant one.. I admit my mom is wrong alot of times, and doesn't make good choices. But I do know she loves me and she would never hurt me like that. Now go raise your own children, because I'm sure just as much as you say I'm going to raise mine wrong. Yours are out somewhere, drinking, doing drugs, or having unprotected sex. Face it all kids do. So in reality no one, raises their child right.. We all raise our children DECENTLY, but they make their own choices and shape theirselves.. Not us. So until you grow up and admit and notice you, cannot and will not raise your child any better than I can and will mine. Then don't bother being parents at all.
~1love~
P.S: Glad to hear you're married now and doing great bama. You've given me even more hope. What I'm going through will, too, soon work out.
 
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coosi

Guest
And for your information, yes, I do know that I can't get married in Louisiana without parent consent. Exactly why we are looking into different states close-by with leaniant laws.

Uh, Precious,

If you'd read the ENTIRE thread, you might find the answers you seek. HELLO...
 
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love4three

Guest
I was reading the posts about the caps and remembered this hope this makes some of you chuckle. If you read it fast you can read it.

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To llxpreciousxll and bama just want to say that you can never be prepared for what is to come because no one knows what is going to happen. I was 22 married had a house and a car and hubby had a decent job when I found out I was having my first child. Before she was born he lost his job, I went into early labor and had a 1 pound 11 ounce baby in the sixth month of pregnancy. I had to watch for four months while my baby had 3 surgerys almost died twice. I am STILL paying on a portion of a $ 250,000 med bill (11 years later) that insurance would not cover. I also have two other children after the birth of the last one my husband (two years younger then me) decided having kids shouldn't change his life and he left to find a better life. I now have 3 beautiful children that I have had to raise by myself very very little money to spend on extras like cloths for myself or a day off. I am not saying your life will end up like this but am saying your better off living YOUR life now instead of watching all your friends live theirs. Once you start this theres no going back with out totally screwing up your life.
 
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