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#1 Today, 07:04 PM
LonesomeDove
Junior Member Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 1
Anulment/Divorce/Custody/Alimony
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What is the name of your state? Oregon
First, I want to thank you for having such a site. It's hard to get the right keywords into Google, and it's very expensive to get a lawyer.
In Oregon, what are some of the conditions for anuling a marriage? And, what is the difference between an anulment and a divorce?
I've been married to my husband 1 year since yesterday, and we have an 8 month old son. We live together currently, but I am secretly planning to leave him when our lease is up. He gave me genital warts, I'm pretty sure he knew he had them, but I can't prove it. He also has a felony conviction which I knew about before the marriage, but what I didn't know was that he still has a warrant in the state of Colorado for a misdemeanor. He lied about being a Christian before we were married. I knew he smoked pot quite a bit before we were married, but I didn't know he was addicted to it. He is abusive toward me and even gets very frustrated at our little baby, even though he hardly ever takes care of him. He looks at porn and has in the past secretly talked to women on the internet. Not like an affair, but I have found e-mails where he e-mailed women telling them they were "hot". I looked at their Yahoo profiles and found that these women live in my city. He no longer has contact with these women.
Any advice you can give me?
Also, is it true that when a parent gets a divorce/anulment, the other parent can't move to another state with the child? (In my case, I would like to get full custody of my son and eventually move back to California where my family is.) If not, what are the conditions for that?
Now, I'm really not the type of gal to "take him for everything he's got" but, since I only work 2 days a week, am I intitled to spousal support? What are some of the conditions for that?
I really appreciate any information or links you can give me. Thank you so much for making a site like this.What is the name of your state?
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My response:
Damn!!
Why couldn't this post have come from one of the Dufus States, like Georgia, Alabama, Missouri, etc.? It would have been PERFECT as a contestant for "Best Trailer Trash" story!!
Damn!
IAAL