signing over rights

[Shay-Pari'e]

The only day i go is on Saturday and my mom keeps them for the few hours i am there. She is off that day.

Then who took care of them when you were gone for a week? Left alone at Grandmas? Here is what you said!


"OK...I am 25 living with my mother with my 3 children. I recently got stuck away from home and my mom reported me to social services and they are now thretening to put my kids into foster care. Of course there are a few more factors to why they are threatening that but you get the idea right?"

Ya, I get the picture. Get a job! Get a car! I don't want to support your kids.

 

[needhelpinnc]

The only day i go is on Saturday and my mom keeps them for the few hours i am there. She is off that day.

Then who took care of them when you were gone for a week? Left alone at Grandmas? Here is what you said!


"OK...I am 25 living with my mother with my 3 children. I recently got stuck away from home and my mom reported me to social services and they are now thretening to put my kids into foster care. Of course there are a few more factors to why they are threatening that but you get the idea right?"

Ya, I get the picture. Get a job! Get a car! I don't want to support your kids.

And once again no one asked you did they?

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

And once again no one asked you did they?

Again! Where were your babies? Left alone while your mother worked? Did your mother have to take a week off work while you were on your sleepover?

Ever hear of a bus?
Ever hear of a taxi?
Ever hear of asking your friend for a ride?

I doubt your mother would take a week off work instead of getting you to watch your own babies. You are a real piece of work.

You would rather see them at Dads, yet now your whining about that. You should have grown up before you started breeding and making us support your kids.

And while I am at it, I will respond whenever I fel like it. You do not dictate who can or cannot .

 

[MrsK]

The only thing that worries me there is having such young babies that it is gonna be even more traumatizing than it already is for them going to such an unfamiliar place. At least here they can see me and they know my mother.

You couldve thought about that before you went to stay with your friend for a few days...

 

[MrsK]

Honey I had no choice in the matter. I was stuck. And don't think for a second i didn't call them several times a day every day while I was gone. As far as Dad goes, he is working on getting stable. Not quite there yet. Although I admit he is much more stable than I am.

Your choice was to not leave your children with your mother, and instead actually act like a parent and raise them yourself.

 

[jpriness73]

oh my gosh Shay!!!!
Her mother TOOK HER!!
Her mother KNEW where she was!!
Her mother OFFERED to watch the kids...
why is this one so touchy to you?
you don't believe in second chances?
She has had a wake up call...
shouldn't there be some support versus all the DRAMA?
I would say if you need help and dad is an okay place to go-considering he was in trouble
then I would definately let them go there...
but then you had said you had to take them to see him, is this something he wants to do?
I have four kids and it isn't easy...
others here must be licking a golden platter and don't know what it is like when all seems to go downhill.

 

[needhelpinnc]

Again! Where were your babies? Left alone while your mother worked? Did your mother have to take a week off work while you were on your sleepover?

Ever hear of a bus?
Ever hear of a taxi?
Ever hear of asking your friend for a ride?

I doubt your mother would take a week off work instead of getting you to watch your own babies. You are a real piece of work.

You would rather see them at Dads, yet now your whining about that. You should have grown up before you started breeding and making us support your kids.

And while I am at it, I will respond whenever I fel like it. You do not dictate who can or cannot .

I found a sitter for my children while she worked. That wasn't even an issue.

 

[MrsK]

oh my gosh Shay!!!!
Her mother TOOK HER!!
Her mother KNEW where she was!!
Her mother OFFERED to watch the kids...
why is this one so touchy to you?
you don't believe in second chances?
She has had a wake up call...
shouldn't there be some support versus all the DRAMA?
I would say if you need help and dad is an okay place to go-considering he was in trouble
then I would definately let them go there...
but then you had said you had to take them to see him, is this something he wants to do?
I have four kids and it isn't easy...
others here must be licking a golden platter and don't know what it is like when all seems to go downhill.

One's children should NOT have to suffer the consequences of their parent(s) needing "second chances".

 

[casa]

I found a sitter for my children while she worked. That wasn't even an issue.

I answered your question pages ago.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

I found a sitter for my children while she worked. That wasn't even an issue.

LMAO! Any more stories? You can't find a sitter so you can work? You could pay a sitter but not for a taxi?

Anyone else catching on to all the lies she's told?

 

[needhelpinnc]

oh my gosh Shay!!!!
Her mother TOOK HER!!
Her mother KNEW where she was!!
Her mother OFFERED to watch the kids...
why is this one so touchy to you?
you don't believe in second chances?
She has had a wake up call...
shouldn't there be some support versus all the DRAMA?
I would say if you need help and dad is an okay place to go-considering he was in trouble
then I would definately let them go there...
but then you had said you had to take them to see him, is this something he wants to do?
I have four kids and it isn't easy...
others here must be licking a golden platter and don't know what it is like when all seems to go downhill.

Yeah I mean he wants his kids. He is going to look at a bigger apartment tomorrow. He is totally supporting me in whatever decision i make with this. And thank you for standing behind me. At least someone sees my side.

 

[bucs1055]

I found a sitter for my children while she worked. That wasn't even an issue.

So, you found a sitter for the kids, but couldn't find anyway to get home

I think maybe that you didn't want to come home and probably would have stayed longer if your mother hadn't called children's services.

How old are you?

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

oh my gosh Shay!!!!
Her mother TOOK HER!!
Her mother KNEW where she was!!
Her mother OFFERED to watch the kids...
why is this one so touchy to you?
you don't believe in second chances?
She has had a wake up call...
shouldn't there be some support versus all the DRAMA?
I would say if you need help and dad is an okay place to go-considering he was in trouble
then I would definately let them go there...
but then you had said you had to take them to see him, is this something he wants to do?
I have four kids and it isn't easy...
others here must be licking a golden platter and don't know what it is like when all seems to go downhill.

Oh my GOSH jprin!!!
Who cares if her mother took her! Her mother told her to get back to her kids!!!
Her mother had to work! Our piece of work here hired a sitter, but can't hire one to work!
I believe in second chances, but not at the sake of 3 innocent babies.
No, she has not had a wake up call.

 

[needhelpinnc]

I found a sitter for my children while she worked. That wasn't even an issue.

LMAO! Any more stories? You can't find a sitter so you can work? You could pay a sitter but not for a taxi?

Anyone else catching on to all the lies she's told?

This happened to be a close friend of mine who understood the situation and was willing to keep my kids until I made it home. And just so you know she didnt charge me. She knows i don't have the money.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Yeah I mean he wants his kids. He is going to look at a bigger apartment tomorrow. He is totally supporting me in whatever decision i make with this. And thank you for standing behind me. At least someone sees my side.

Unfortunetly she is not seeing the side that is important, but at least you have a buddy to whine to.