signing over rights

[needhelpinnc]

So, you found a sitter for the kids, but couldn't find anyway to get home

I think maybe that you didn't want to come home and probably would have stayed longer if your mother hadn't called children's services.

How old are you?

I did want to be home. I knew the second night I was gone she called them. I had no way home. And like I just said I didn't have anyway home. My mother is my ride for now. Im 25. Why?

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

This happened to be a close friend of mine who understood the situation and was willing to keep my kids until I made it home. And just so you know she didnt charge me. She knows i don't have the money.

Gee, you chose to have her watch your kids instead of picking you up?

Anymore stories?

Give your children up for adoption. They deserve better than to have a mother so messed up in the head.

 

[MrsK]

I found a sitter for my children while she worked. That wasn't even an issue.

LMAO! Any more stories? You can't find a sitter so you can work? You could pay a sitter but not for a taxi?

Anyone else catching on to all the lies she's told?

Yeah, I had noticed that, too.

 

[needhelpinnc]

Unfortunetly she is not seeing the side that is important, but at least you have a buddy to whine to.

If I wanted to whine I have plenty of people I can whine to sweetie. I came here to get advice and instead and sitting here defending myself. That's a bunch of BS.

 

[needhelpinnc]

Gee, you chose to have her watch your kids instead of picking you up?

Anymore stories?

Give your children up for adoption. They deserve better than to have a mother so messed up in the head.

Whatever. Think what you guys want. I'm just gonna be criticized no matter what i say. I'll leave you alone to your picture perfect lives.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

So far we have,****************************.

Mom drops you off yet calls CPS on day two. Hmm, sounds to me she expected you home. Your dear friend watches your kids for a week instead of picking you up. Right! You are one excuse after another and it isn't working.

 

[bucs1055]

I did want to be home. I knew the second night I was gone she called them. I had no way home. And like I just said I didn't have anyway home. My mother is my ride for now. Im 25. Why?

No offense but you sound very immature for a mother

Have you ever heard of walking or the bus?

How can you say you wanted to be home, if you had REALLY wanted to be home, you would have been home.

Please do every one a favor and start taking care of your children, they are innocent(spelling) and it is up to YOU as their MOTHER to care for them, not your mother or your friend or whoever.

Edit to add: BTW, whatever you were helping your Friend with, was it more important then your children?
And what were you sitting around doing for 5 days at your friends after your mother called on you?

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Whatever. Think what you guys want. I'm just gonna be criticized no matter what i say. I'll leave you alone to your picture perfect lives.

If you had so many people to whine to, why didn't you whine to them for a ride to take care of your own kids?

Why are you using the comment *Picture Perfect Lives*? If mine is, don't you think I worked hard at it?

I think you just expect the world to give to you. It's not going to happen so give your kids up to a *Picture Perfect* family .

 

[bucs1055]

Sorry Rant

Why the hell do so many people seem to have so much trouble taking care of their children. God, children didn't ask to be born, especially to loser parents who do not take any resposibility for their actions. Children are precious and deserve the best care in the world and it is discusting(spelling) to me that people whine and complain about everything under the sun instead of just taking care of their damn kids.
Give me a break

Sorry

 

[MrsK]

Whatever. Think what you guys want. I'm just gonna be criticized no matter what i say. I'll leave you alone to your picture perfect lives.

Geez, its like banging your head against a brick wall.

 

[jpriness73]

when i filed for divorce from my ex i had to move into my parent's house with 2 kids and pregnant with twins...no i didn't know that my ex was going to flip out and drink into a bottle after the death of his mother...but he did. leaving me high and dry without a dime. It took me TWO years of governmental assistance to get back on my feet with four kids. I got help with daycare, hospital bills, food, and housing...
because i am a loser NO!!!!
My mom watched my kids until i got help with daycare. She has also watched my kids on a two day thing because i had to go out of town for a friend's mom's funeral...am i a loser...NO!!!!!!! do i love my friend more than my children? NO!!!!!!!
I also cannot believe someone said anything about adoption...i am adopted and that is because people were telling her she was no good and would become nothing. Well they didn't believe in her and yet she is very well off and devastated because she listened to others and not her heart!!!!!!!!!

 

[jpriness73]

are all of you guys taking care of your kids while you spend all day online?
before you get a chance---mine are at the zoo with their grandparents

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

are all of you guys taking care of your kids while you spend all day online?
before you get a chance---mine are at the zoo with their grandparents

You mean while I am at work and on line? My daughter is at Homework Club and my son is at his after school job at Togo's. I do plan on not comming home for a week or so, so I'll have to find out where they have been then.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

when i filed for divorce from my ex i had to move into my parent's house with 2 kids and pregnant with twins...no i didn't know that my ex was going to flip out and drink into a bottle after the death of his mother...but he did. leaving me high and dry without a dime. It took me TWO years of governmental assistance to get back on my feet with four kids. I got help with daycare, hospital bills, food, and housing...
because i am a loser NO!!!!
My mom watched my kids until i got help with daycare. She has also watched my kids on a two day thing because i had to go out of town for a friend's mom's funeral...am i a loser...NO!!!!!!! do i love my friend more than my children? NO!!!!!!!
I also cannot believe someone said anything about adoption...i am adopted and that is because people were telling her she was no good and would become nothing. Well they didn't believe in her and yet she is very well off and devastated because she listened to others and not her heart!!!!!!!!!

Feel better? Still wondering what this has to do with the post, but as long as you feel better.

Funny how you were married just a few day's ago.

#1 05-25-2006, 08:37 AM
jpriness73
Junior Member Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 19

should i ask for a modification?

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What is the name of your state? ohio
My son is 13 and I am running into some expenses with him such as, football, basketball camps. He has also decided to start wearing the trendier clothes. I am trying to buy everything on clearance and coaches are kind enough to help out. He will be at the high school and may not be able to get the breaks we have gotten at the middle school level. I am married with 4 children and I am blessed to be a stay at home mom until the fall because my husband takes good care of us. I have tried to get a hold of my ex to ask if he would help with one thing or another. However his wife wants everything to go through child support.
The back story is:
My ex has never seen his child, EVER! I waived the first two years of child support to stop any drama-he had an attorney and made all kinds of paperwork just to get to the paternity tests. He spent the next two years paying support when he wanted to. These past nine years have been timely. BUT he lives in a $300,000 home his family is very prominent in the area-hence the cut off of the wedlock son that I have. I have never even asked him to pay the 50% er bills that I have incurred twice.
I don't know what the court will think if I request a modification. I also don't want it to go bad for him.
What would you do?

 

[AHA]

are all of you guys taking care of your kids while you spend all day online?
before you get a chance---mine are at the zoo with their grandparents

This thread is not about you, so drop it.